Because We Love Her

Thursday, Jan 28, 2010

January 29th, 2010 Posted in Daily News Post

Chloe had a great night last night. She slept through all the suctions I did starting at 3:15 and running through when she got going at about 9 AM. So I guess I had a night like Dana has been having. However, I haven’t been doing it night after night.

In the morning the gastro doctor came to discuss the procedure of putting a stomach tube in vs the nose tube. It’s another surgical procedure and they had it scheduled for Monday. However, we were only in the discussion stage and didn’t mean for anything to be scheduled yet. He was great about it and said it just takes three days to set it up. He cancelled Monday. He also told me there were two different procedures, one that was done from the inside out and the other was more surgical and was from the outside in. The former is supposed to be the least invasive but it also means that it will be a two-stage procedure. The first would be a tube and would stay in place for six weeks. Then a plug would be placed. If we went the surgical route the plug would be placed right away but the procedure would take more healing time and has a few more risks.

I think we are going with the former but we are letting Chloe be a part of the decision. We also want her to understand the procedures and the benefits of each.

PT/OT was about an hour and a half and went well, although I believe Chloe was a bit distracted. She was in thoughtville throughout the workout. First up was paddleball with a beach ball. Next it was weight training while standing at her walker. That was going okay until she dropped a one pound weight on her toe. That set us back a bit but we did recover. After that her feet were covered by two layers of pillows. She didn’t drop another weight on her foot… but did on Michelle’s.

Then we were off to a set of stairs in the gym. She walked first to a chair at the base of the stairs. She rested a moment and then climbed the stairs. She did very well, although she thought she was going to fall over backwards at one point. There was no risk of that with Michelle right there.

She went on a scavenger hunt to finish the session. She walked out of the gym and down the hall. When she found something on the list she’d have to stop and mark it off the list. It ended at the bathroom. How convenient.

We were upstairs for speech and schooling. Speech is showing more and more signs of sensation every day. She actually said the coke was too strong today. And her gag response is coming more forward in her mouth. Every bit forward is a great thing.

School also went very well. She is doing very well in her math and is spending time writing her own answers. Her writing is getting a little bit better daily as well. Of course she won’t be satisfied until she has her pretty handwriting back again.

Dana stopped by for a little while during the end of PT/OT as she had a little more to take care of at the business office. Chloe sure liked seeing her. So when it came time to leave again Dana picked a busy time to say goodbye for today. Then tonight I noticed Chloe was emailing with Dana. Even though Chloe says Dana has to leave and get some sleep, she really would rather she stay all the time.

She has been on sterile room air almost all day with just a little change to oxygen before going downstairs for her hour with Margaret. All of her bathroom breaks have been on foot! She still won’t try it without her leg wraps but I think that’s coming soon. She is really moving quite well, all things considered. She can almost sit up by herself. And she motors right along with minimal support from behind. Still can’t get on and off the bed by herself but that’s probably because she really doesn’t know where her right foot is going at any given time.

We are hitting the hay a little earlier tonight to see if we can get a full night of sleep. She did pretty well but I’d like to see a little less suction needed. She’ll be on oxygen overnight. She will wake up tomorrow an eleven year old! Of course we all know she is actually Twenty-Nine.

Be well,
Ron

  1. 164 Responses to “Thursday, Jan 28, 2010”

  2. By dana watts on Jan 29, 2010

    Chloe,

    On this, the eve of your birth I am thinking of your birthday letter. You and Colin know these exist to remind you both what you mean to me. Believe me when I say you are heading places….maybe ‘food’ places when you heal. Who knows? A World traveler who is paid to taste, report and write about culinary delights in far off lands. Perhaps Africa?

    Thank you for tonights email. I understand better where your feelings lie. I honor them and yet will ask you again to consider riding with a day which is yet unwritten. Yes, by all means, feel what you feel and..please be open…..just leave a little space for more….okay?

    let it ride baby….We’re all on your side.

    mama mia

  3. By Melody Virding on Jan 29, 2010

    Happy Birthday, Chloe, as I again end every night reading your blog. I know being in the hospital isn’t where anyone wants to spend their birthday but hopefully you’re just getting that off of your life checklist so it never has to happen again, that next birthday will find you off doing something much more fun and exciting! Feel all of the love people will send today and let that make you smile. You have so many people rooting for you, praying for you, and with you every inch of the way. And Mama Dana, thank God for the gift of every precious day you have had with Chloe for the last 11 years and look ahead to all yet to come–faith, ladies….Birthday Hugs from Kari’s mom, Melody

  4. By Lyne Collin (Montreal, QC, Canada) on Jan 29, 2010

    Sweet Birthday Girl…

    How much progress you are making !!!
    And the reason for all this is your courage and determination…NOTHING can keep you down…you won’t allow it !!!
    You LOVE life and it shows !!!
    You know there’s a plan for you…you are destined to shine and travel an exciting fulfilling journey on this road we call life !!!

    Wish I could be there with you today to give you a hug and tell you how much I am humbled to be able to tell everyone…YES I know Chloe Watts…she is one amazing young lady !!!

    Can’t wait to get one of your t-shirts and wear it proudly !!! I absolutely LOVE your design…Sunshine is one of my favorite things…for me it means warmth…it means joy…it means life…it means love…it means YOU !!!

    Happy Happy Birthday Sweet Angel !!!
    I love you !!!

    Lyne xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

  5. By Superman on Jan 29, 2010

    Eleven already, my how time flys. While you may not be exactly where you want on this day, make the day yours, feel the love all around you. Happy Birthday!

  6. By Sarah Koch on Jan 29, 2010

    Happy birthday, Chloe! I can’t know how tough this all is for you, but you are moving forward. your mother’s right: feel what you feel, express it, unburden yourself, but also know you are moving forward, all the time. You are moving forward.

    xoxo,
    Sarah Koch

  7. By Kat~ on Jan 29, 2010

    Chloe…..

    Happy # 11 !! So proud of the young lady you have become and the adult you one day will be. The way you’ve been working SO hard with all your therapy, we all know that you will always have that determination thru out your life. You just amaze me and when i grow up, i hope to have just a bit of the strength you have !!

    Love you Chloe, Happy Birthday !!
    Kat~

  8. By Laura Speirs on Jan 29, 2010

    Chloe, sweetest girl!! Happy, happy birthday. We are all so glad you were born and we love you so much! I talked to your mom yesterday and told her there’s a container of pesto in my freezer with your name on it! I can’t wait to watch you eat it. Yum!

    Sending you love and healing every minute of every day.

    Laura

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